
Celebrating the DreamWe made sure our boys watched this historic moment (we made a special 'O' dinner to make it fun for them).
The day affected me in a way I did not anticipate. It wasn't just about an African American becoming president, it was about reaffirming what our country stands for:
"On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord. ...
"Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted - for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things - some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labour, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom. For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and travelled across oceans in search of a new life. For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and ploughed the hard earth. For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn.
"...we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our founding fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience's sake. ...
"For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus - and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace."
This made me think of my grandparents. One grandmother scrubbed floors for 7 years as an indentured servant to pay her way to America. Unable to speak any English, one grandfather walked every day from Philadelphia to NJ to work as a laborer moving boxes in a factory. My other grandmother sewed buttons and did piecework for hours on end, with help from her daughters. Another grandfather did whatever he could do to put food on the table for 9 kids. These were not people who whined or complained. They did it, and they believed in the dream. It's what brought them across the ocean. And thanks to their hard work, and the hard work of my parents, I have been blessed. I have met world leaders, and live a life they could only imagine might be possible two generations later. I am the proof that the dream can work.
And I rebel inside when I hear my fellow Americans complain about immigrants and people who come to the country from other places. It's what has been the strength of the country for so long. I welcome President Obama's recognition of the journey we have all taken. And the journey my husband, children and I are still taking.